About Annie Lane

Annie Lane

Annie Lane

Annie Lane grew up in California and headed east to graduate with honors from New York University, where she majored in English literature and specialized in psychology. She earned her Juris Doctor from New York Law School.

Since July 2016, Annie has offered common-sense solutions to everyday problems in her column, “Dear Annie.” Her advice is unusually perceptive. She is firm, funny and sympathetic, echoing the style of her biggest inspiration, Ann Landers.

Annie lives outside Manhattan with her husband, two kids and two dogs. When not writing, she devotes her time to play dates and Play-Doh. 

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My Friend's Joy Highlights My Own Pain Jul 07, 2026

Dear Annie: I am embarrassed to admit this, but I am jealous of my best friend. "Claire" and I have been close for more than 20 years. We met in college, stood in each other's weddings and raised our children alongside one another. She has always bee... Read More

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Being Needed Isn't the Same as Being Valued Jul 06, 2026

Dear Annie: I am the person everyone in my family calls when they need something. I babysit, drive relatives to appointments, host holidays and lend money when someone is in a bind. I rarely complain because I love my family and want to be helpful. A... Read More

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Grandson's New Relationship Creates Distance Jul 05, 2026

Dear Annie: My husband and I raised our grandson from the time he was a baby. He is now 19, and until recently, we were very close. When he first introduced us to his girlfriend, I thought she seemed nice enough. But now she is constantly by his side... Read More

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Celebrating Freedom, Family and Love This Fourth of July Jul 04, 2026

Dear Readers: On this Fourth of July, I hope you give yourself permission to slow down. Let the day be simple. Enjoy the sound of laughter from the next yard. Notice the flags moving in the breeze. Sit outside with a cold drink. Watch the children ru... Read More